I just don't take relationships serious anymore. I have seen too many dramas around and I dare to conclude that a relationship that starts at this age usually don't last until marriage. Note that I'm not saying all relationships are like that.
People these days fall in and out of love too easily. And that includes me. There should be a reminder for all of us that the main reason of having a relationship is to look for our lifetime partner. It's not about joining the hype or getting out of single life. It's not about having a person to go to when you're sad, or having a person to buy you lunch and dinner. It's about living with this person for the rest of your life. And you will have to be willing to bear with your partner's negative sides.
I dare to say, my past relationships ended because I don't see myself having a future with them. And yes, I do think that far. So if I break up with you, it means that you're not the person I've been looking for.
Out of 10 status updates on my FB news feed, 8 are usually about how sad they are regarding their 'relationship problems'. Excuse me, but what kind of shit problems do you have? Your boyfriend gets jealous over your friends? Your girlfriend talks to another guy?
One word. Childish.
If you didn't realise, only teenagers(or rather, KIDS) fight about these sort of immature things. There's no need to get pissy because your girlfriend talks to another guy. Learn to suppress that feeling, you immature dude.
Many people I know(of my age) got themselves involved in relationships because they wanted someone to pamper them with gifts, flowers and so on. And I'm very sure they have never once thought of marrying their current partners. Even if they do, I bet they have never considered things like the partner's future etc etc.
I know I may be thinking too much but I do judge a person from head to toe and from in to out. If you're a lifeless bugger, leave me alone.
And having said this, I admit that I want a perfectionist as my boyfriend(more like husband, thanks) but as usual, no one is perfect. Which explains why I am single now. Because I demand too much. Padan muka me right, I know.
But being single isn't all that bad. Least I dont need to have my phone with me 24/7 just to reply his messages asking me where am I and what am I doing and who I'm with bla bla bla. Urgh.
Talking about that, I dont see the need in reporting every single thing you do to your partner. It's just ridiculous. It's like, totally losing your privacy and gaining no freedom over your own life. Even if the partner doesn't care, it's still stupid to be texting your partner all the time talking about things like "Oh I'm shitting now. Texting you in the toilet" or "Oh I'm banging other chick now. Just telling you :)"
KIDDING LAH.
So to all kids who take relationships at this age seriously, sorry but I'm secretly laughing at your stupidity.
Disclaimer: Dont terasa lah. I'm not attacking anyone. I'm just voicing my opinion :)
Haven't had a girlfriend, doesn't know how texting works. sad, haha.
ReplyDeletepersonally, i think relationships should come as they are. no need to make it happen, it will happen once you've found the right one. haha
Who is this? SOON CHIA!? Haha.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you :) But in my case, I'm trying to avoid relationships now. It's just not the right time.
definitely soon chia. hahaha
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